Are you a woman looking to explore your pleasure safely and confidently? Look no further than this podcast, where we have the amazing Dr. Amir Marashi as our guest. Dr. Marashi is a board-certified OBGYN, author, and founder of Cerē with over twenty years of experience in the medical field. He has created a distinctive collection of over two-hundred works and original texts from over sixty of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers, and creative thinkers from around the globe. In this podcast, Dr. Marashi will explain how he has used his knowledge and expertise to create a system called “The Vagina Whisperer” to empower women and open conversations about female pleasure.

In this six-step guide, I will outline how Dr. Amir Marashi has created systems and tools to unlock female pleasure and promote Female Pleasure Empowerment.

About Dr. Amir Marashi

Welcome to the Vibes by Alicia podcast! I am so excited to be bringing to you Dr. Amir Marashi – a board-certified OBGYN who has over twenty years of experience in the medical field. Dr. Marashi is an author, the founder of Surrey, and was the first doctor in the US to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OBGYN residency training. In twenty-twenty, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, a distinctive collection of over two-hundred works and original texts from over sixty of the world’s most important and well recognized female-identifying artists, writers, and creative thinkers from around the globe. Dr. Marashi is here to talk about empowering women and giving them the knowledge

Why is it important for women to explore their pleasure safely and confidently?

For women, exploring their pleasure safely and confidently is an important part of their overall wellbeing. When women are able to explore their pleasure in a safe and confident manner, they can become more comfortable with their bodies, their desires, and how they experience pleasure. This can lead to greater physical and mental health, as well as improved communication with partners and more satisfying sexual experiences. Exploring pleasure safely and confidently also provides women with an opportunity to learn about their physical and emotional needs and boundaries, allowing them to make informed decisions about their sexual experiences. This can foster self-confidence and self-respect, allowing women to take control of their own pleasure and be more empowered in their sexual relationships. Additionally, exploring pleasure safely and confidently can reduce the fear of judgement or stigma, making it easier for women to explore their pleasure without feeling shame or guilt.

Here are the steps you need to follow:
1. Educate yourself on female anatomy and pleasure.
2. Understand the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo.
3. Recognize the cultural and religious influences that perpetuate the oppression of female pleasure.
4. Learn about the medical procedures and products that can help restore lost sensation and pleasure to women.
5. Seek out feminist allies to help spread the message of female pleasure empowerment.
6. Utilize the power of storytelling to start conversations about female pleasure and break down stigmas.


Welcome back to the Vibes by Alicia podcast! To start off this episode, I am so thrilled to introduce our guest – Dr. Amir Marashi! He is a board certified OBGYN, author, and the founder of Surrey. He has twenty years of experience in the medical field, and was the first doctor in the US to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OBGYN residency training. In twenty-twenty, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, which is a unique collection of over two-hundred works and original texts from over sixty of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers, and creative thinkers from around the globe. Dr. Marashi’s mission is to empower women and talk about a woman’s right to pleasure, as this has been an area that has been historically neglected or was not taken seriously. With the help of Black Book, he was able to bring together a collection of feminist artists to create this book, and his work has been recognized and appreciated for its importance. We are so glad to have him here to share his knowledge and experiences with us.

Dr. Marashi believes that women should have the right to explore and celebrate their bodies in the same way that men traditionally have. He has seen firsthand the positive impact that pleasure can have on a woman’s health and well-being, and he is committed to educating women and providing them with the resources necessary to make informed decisions about their own sexual health. At Surrey, Dr. Marashi and his team provide a safe and comfortable space for women to explore their sexuality and find pleasure without judgment or shame. From education and research to resources and events, they strive to create an open, welcoming environment where all women can feel respected and empowered. We are so excited to have Dr. Marashi here with us today, and can’t wait to hear more about his work and his commitment to the self-care movement.

2. Educate yourself on female anatomy and pleasure.
Educating yourself on female anatomy and pleasure can be an incredibly rewarding journey. The first step is to gain a basic understanding of female anatomy, including the clitoris, the labia, and the vagina. This can be done through online resources such as books and videos, or by talking to a doctor or health professional. Once you have a basic understanding of the anatomy, it is important to learn about the various types of female pleasure and how to create it. This can include exploring different types of stimulation, locating erogenous zones, and understanding the importance of using lube. Additionally, learning about the various ways to practice mindful pleasure and relaxation can help to create a more enjoyable experience. With a bit of research and exploration, you will be well on your way to understanding female anatomy and pleasure.

Once you have a basic understanding of female anatomy and pleasure, it is important to practice communicating these topics with a partner. This can include talking through likes and dislikes, being open about fantasies, and learning how to provide feedback to ensure a pleasurable experience for both partners. Additionally, it is important to understand the importance of consent and respect when it comes to exploring pleasure. Finally, it is important to remember that pleasure is an individual experience and that everyone has different preferences. Being open to trying new things and listening to your partner’s feedback can help to create a more enjoyable experience. By educating yourself on female anatomy and pleasure, you can gain a better understanding of how to provide pleasure for yourself and your partner. It is important to remember that pleasure is a lifelong learning process and that there is always more to learn. By taking the time to research, explore, and communicate with a partner, you can create a more enjoyable and fulfilling experience.

3. Understand the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo.
The third step in understanding the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo is to talk to experts and to do research. Dr. Amir Marashi, a board certified OBGYN, is a great example of someone who has put in the effort to help empower women and talk about female pleasure. He has over 20 years of experience in the medical field and has written a book called A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, which explores the taboo around female pleasure from over sixty of the world’s most important and well recognized female-identifying writers and creative thinkers. He has also designed pleasure objects specifically for women and has performed hymenoplasty surgeries to help preserve women’s virginity. Dr. Marashi also speaks about the cultural and religious taboos that are often associated with female pleasure. He speaks about how female genital mutilation is used to strip women of their pleasure and how male circumcision is different from it. He also talks about how oppression of women is still happening in many countries, even though there are empowered women and men who are trying to make a change. He stresses the importance of understanding the roots of why female pleasure is so taboo, and how it is different in each country. Ultimately, it is important to understand the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo in order to create a safe and open environment for women to explore their sexuality.

Another way to understand the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo is to explore the works of feminist authors and scholars. Scholars like Audre Lorde, bell hooks, and Gloria Anzaldúa have written extensively about the importance of female pleasure and how it is connected to the patriarchy and oppression of women. Audre Lorde, a Caribbean-American writer and civil rights activist, has written about the importance of recognizing and celebrating female pleasure in her work Sister Outsider. She argues that women should not be ashamed of their desires, and that pleasure should be seen as a source of liberation and empowerment. Feminist scholars like bell hooks have also written extensively about the power dynamics that exist within sex and how pleasure is often taken away from women in these situations. hooks argues that in order to truly understand the importance of female pleasure and the consequences of its taboo, we must first understand the power dynamics that are present in sexual encounters and how they often work to the disadvantage of women. By doing this, we can begin to create a more equitable and safe environment for women to explore their sexuality and pleasure.

4. Recognize the cultural and religious influences that perpetuate the oppression of female pleasure.
In order to recognize the cultural and religious influences that perpetuate the oppression of female pleasure, it is important to understand the history of oppression and how it has been used to limit women’s autonomy. Dr. Marashi’s story highlights how in some countries and religions, female genital mutilation is used to restrict female pleasure and keep women in traditional roles. Dr. Marashi also speaks of how in some countries, women are required to be virgins before marriage, and how this shows the difference in how men and women are treated. He also recounts the story of a woman in Haiti who was ostracized due to a recto-vaginal fistula, which made her smell of feces. By understanding these examples of oppression, we can begin to recognize the cultural and religious influences that have been used to limit female pleasure. It is also important to recognize the role of men in perpetuating these oppressive systems, as well as the role of empowered women in pushing for change. By understanding the history of oppression, we can work towards creating a more equitable and just society in which female pleasure is no longer suppressed.

In order to truly challenge the cultural and religious influences that perpetuate the oppression of female pleasure, it is important to understand the mechanisms in which this oppression is perpetuated. For example, in some cultures, women are expected to submit to their husbands in a patriarchal system, which limits their autonomy and their ability to express pleasure. Additionally, religious taboos on premarital sex can limit women’s sexual freedom, and even sex education can be skewed in a way that reinforces oppressive gender norms. It is also important to recognize the ways in which language is used to perpetuate oppression, such as the use of words like “slut” or “whore” to shame women who express their sexuality. By recognizing the cultural and religious influences that perpetuate oppression of female pleasure, we can begin to challenge these oppressive systems and create a more equitable society. This can be done through education, by teaching women about their bodies and their rights, as well as by challenging oppressive language and gender norms. Additionally, by providing resources to women who have experienced oppression, we can help to create a safer and more supportive environment for women to express their sexuality. By taking these steps, we can work towards a more equitable society in which female pleasure is no longer suppressed.

5. Learn about the medical procedures and products that can help restore lost sensation and pleasure to women.
In order to learn about the medical procedures and products that can help restore lost sensation and pleasure to women, Dr. Amir Marashi is a great source of information. He is a board certified OBGYN with over twenty years of experience in the medical field and has written a book called A Woman’s Right to Pleasure. In the book, Dr. Marashi discusses how different treatments and products can help women regain lost sensation and pleasure. He cites examples of how, in some countries, women are subjected to female genital mutilation, which strips them of their pleasure. However, Dr. Marashi speaks of how it is possible to restore sensation to some extent. He also talks about the importance of using pleasure objects that are designed specifically for women, as opposed to phallic type objects. Finally, he speaks of how his nurses gave him the moniker of “The Vagina Whisperer” for his work in helping a woman who suffered from a recto-vaginal fistula. Through his work, Dr. Marashi provides a wealth of information on medical procedures and products that can help restore lost sensation and pleasure to women.

When looking for medical procedures and products that can help restore lost sensation and pleasure to women, it is important to find a medical professional who is knowledgeable in this area. Dr. Marashi is an invaluable resource in this regard. Additionally, websites such as The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health (CSPH) offer a wealth of information on the topic and can provide further resources for those looking for solutions. CSPH also offers workshops and online courses to further educate people on the topic. It is also important to consider that not all products and treatments that promise to restore lost sensation and pleasure to women will be effective or even safe. It is important to research any products or treatments thoroughly to ensure that they are safe and effective. Additionally, it is important to be aware of any potential risks associated with any procedure or product. Finding a medical professional who is experienced in restoring lost sensation and pleasure to women is always the best option to ensure that it is done safely and effectively.

6. Seek out feminist allies to help spread the message of female pleasure empowerment.
Seeking feminist allies to help spread the message of female pleasure empowerment is an essential step in the process of encouraging female pleasure. Feminist allies are individuals who stand for gender equality and support the empowerment of women. They can be found in a variety of spaces, from online forums to activist groups, and can be a valuable asset in helping to educate and spread word of the female pleasure revolution. The first step in finding feminist allies is to do some research to find those who are passionate and knowledgeable about the subject. It can be beneficial to look for those who have already been active in the space, such as authors, researchers, activists, and educators. Social media can be a great tool for finding allies, as well as attending events and conferences related to female pleasure and feminism. Once allies have been identified, it is important to reach out and create relationships with them. This can be done by engaging in conversations and cultivating mutual support. Once the relationship is established, it is important to keep the lines of communication open and share resources, ideas, and events with each other. By building a strong network of feminist allies, it is possible to create an even greater impact and further spread the message of female pleasure empowerment.

It is also important to recognize allies outside of the feminist movement. allies from other areas of advocacy can be just as valuable in helping to spread the message of female pleasure empowerment. These allies may come from LGBTQ+ organizations, anti-violence initiatives, reproductive rights organizations, and more. Reaching out to those who are passionate about gender equality and women’s rights can be a great way to gain more support for the female pleasure revolution. Finally, it is important to remember to stay in touch with allies. Maintaining relationships with feminist allies and other advocates is key to continuing the conversation and spreading the message of female pleasure empowerment. Staying in touch with allies can be done through emails, text messages, social media, and other forms of communication. This will help keep the momentum going and ensure that the message of female pleasure empowerment continues to reach more and more people.

7. Utilize the power of storytelling to start conversations about female pleasure and break down stigmas.
Storytelling is an incredibly powerful tool for breaking down stigmas and starting conversations about female pleasure. By teaching and informing through stories, we can create an inclusive and supportive environment for discussing female pleasure and the issues that often come with it. In order to effectively use storytelling to start conversations about female pleasure, it is important to identify stories that accurately represent the experiences of women and the issues they face. For example, Dr. Marashi’s story about a Haitian woman who was ostracized for having a recto-vaginal fistula is a powerful example of how women can be overlooked and dismissed in medical care. By sharing stories like this, we can create an understanding and appreciation for the struggles that women face in gaining access to quality healthcare, and use these stories to start conversations about how we can improve healthcare for women. Additionally, stories can be used to inform people about the various products and services available to help women achieve pleasure, as well as to provide a safe space for individuals to ask questions and learn more about female pleasure.

By sharing stories of women who have found pleasure and success in their lives, we can help normalize and de-stigmatize the conversation surrounding female pleasure. There are many inspiring stories of women who have found pleasure and success, despite the obstacles they have faced. These stories can be used to create a space of understanding and acceptance for all women, no matter their race, orientation, or background. Additionally, these stories can be used to start conversations about how we can better support and provide services for women in our communities. Finally, storytelling can be used to highlight the importance of self-care and pleasure for all women. Self-care is an essential part of being a woman, and it is important to ensure that all women have access to the resources and services they need to achieve pleasure and success. By using stories to demonstrate the importance of self-care, we can help create a culture of acceptance and understanding for women who are striving for pleasure and success. By sharing these stories, we can start conversations about how we can better support and provide services for women in our communities.

In conclusion, unlocking female pleasure is an important part of women’s overall wellbeing. Through this 6-step guide, we have outlined various ways in which women can explore their pleasure safely and confidently, from educating themselves on female anatomy and pleasure, to recognizing cultural and religious influences that perpetuate the oppression of female pleasure, to seeking out feminist allies to help spread the message of female pleasure empowerment. With a bit of research and exploration, anyone can gain the knowledge and skills necessary to pursue female pleasure. So take the first step and start exploring your pleasure today – you deserve it!

I’d love to hear how you apply “The Vagina Whisperer” to get female pleasure empowerment.. Leave me a comment on how it went for you or drop any questions you want me to answer!

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